Hosting a game night people actually show up to

Start with the table, not the guest list

Most board games play best with four to six people, and almost none work above eight. So the number of seats decides everything else: how many people to invite, which games to bring, and whether you need a second table. Count your chairs before you count your friends.

If more people want to come than one table holds, plan for two games running side by side, or pick a party game built for big groups (word games and social deduction games handle eight to ten well).

Pick games for the people coming

• Open with something short. A fifteen-minute game while people arrive means nobody waits around for the late ones.
• Teach one new game per night, at most. Rules explanations are the slowest part of any game night. Read them beforehand so you can teach in five minutes.
• Match weight to the room. A three-hour strategy game is great for four enthusiasts and miserable for a mixed group. When in doubt, choose the lighter game.
• Have a backup. If a game falls flat, switch rather than pushing through.

Make the invite do the work

Say the start time, roughly when it ends, and what you're playing. People commit more readily when they know it's “7 to 10, bringing Codenames and Wingspan” than “games at mine sometime Friday”. Mention food and drinks too: whether you're providing them, or whether people should bring something.

Ask for a firm yes or no a day or two ahead. A game for five with four players can be a different evening.

When someone drops out

Someone always cancels on the day. Keep a short list of people who'd happily fill a seat at short notice, and ask them in order as soon as a spot opens. It keeps the table full without making anyone feel like a second choice: they were simply next in line.

In Planarchy

Cap the event at the number of seats. Anyone who asks once it's full goes on a stand-by list, either in the order they asked or in an order you rank yourself, and when a guest backs out the next person is offered the spot automatically. Set it to repeat if game night is a regular thing.

Plan it on Planarchy

Everything above works with a group chat and some patience. Planarchy keeps it in one place instead: the date vote, the guest list, the stand-by list and the chat all live on the event, and it's free.

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